ad to be consoled by friends.In
What happened?
The New York Giants football team defeated the New England Patriots in Super Bowl XLII.
That’s all. Two cities are in an uproar over a game – a game in which the fans don’t play or participate in (other than spectators) and the result of which has no concrete affect on their everyday lives. Do we really get excited by Giants Quarterback Eli Manning winning the MVP trophy and a new car? Isn’t he already a multi-millionaire?
“Fans become passionate about their team and try to find personal satisfaction in their team's wins,” Allyce Najimy, senior associate director at the Center for the Study of Sport in Society at
“Our sports heroes are our warriors,” Robert Cialdini, a professor of psychology at
A scary thought, but this is what happened after the favored Patriots unexpectedly fell to the Giants. Fans from
touchdown.
As an avid sports fan (and die-hard Patriots loyalist), I experienced this disappointment first hand. I went through all the emotional anguish by last night’s Super Bowl loss – the fist-gripped stomach, the dizziness, and the disbelief.
And afterwards, as I reflected on the silliness of it, I wondered why I couldn’t be so passionate about real things in my life. Voting for the right candidate can actually make a difference in my life. Getting involved in my local schools can show real benefits. Spending more time with my parents and my wife and daughters. I know logically that the Patriots winning the Super Bowl will not make my life better or change it in anyway.
Why get so emotional (or concerned) about something I can't control the outcome of? I’m not involved in the game – I’m merely a passive observer. So why get worked up about the pretend rather than the real?
Wouldn’t it be amazing if our unbridled passion for watching sports on television was duplicated in other areas of our lives? Think of the possibilities:
I know I'm right, but then again I know this is all bullshit and I’m just trying to rationalize it away because the goddamn Patriots fucking choked on a chicken bone.
Read something real funny: our interview with the Ironic Times
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I went through that same rationalization--must be one of the grief steps we go through in sports. I think the reason we get so emotionally involved in this stuff is partly all the time we invest during a season watching these games and reading about them and partly it becomes a communal experience--we're rooting with our friends, co-workers and neighbors all for the same cause. Yesterday's game was particularly hard because it was built up to be history--seeing something done that we were told would never be done. In the end the pressure got to the Pats--either the pressure of making history or all the Spygate stuff dug out at the last minute. In anycase, instead of being labeled the greatest team of all-time, we're now stuck with the Patsies of old--the greatest joke of all time.
But I think you're right. The Pats played "not to lose" rather than to win. They were tight. The pressure -- the incredible weight -- of 19-0 cracked their backs.